reindeer flying drunk vs MS

Memories of Christmas morning broke new ground this year with aphone call from Patti’s care facility that she had been found on the floor nextto her bed about a half hour before dawn.

After physical and neurological examination sheappeared OK and had no complaints nor remembered anything. Of course MultipleSclerosis related memory loss, Patti’s MS short circuiting of pain neurotransmittersand probable shock confounded examination.

Incoming day shift found her during 7 AM ‘observation’.Overnight shift reported her asleep in bed at the previous hour’s 6 AM check.

Nursing staff wanted to keep her up and alert,just in case (some kind of concussion protocol), and on priority monitoring andevaluation. After a couple hours – a bruise beginning to develop on her kneewas the only observable concern.

Continuing with plans to pick Patti up forChristmas Day with family still seemed the best of possible ideas.

All things considered, in fact, Patti wasfiring on all cylinders right through the day. Patti never gets up as early as7 AM and has not gone without at least one mid-day nap for at least a decade.She was beyond impressive for someone who began the day falling out of bed, participating with over a dozen family members inChristmas Day festivities .

After about the umpteenth time of pestering herif she remembered anything about how she ended up on the floor - she turned to me while riding in thevan and said, “the damn reindeer were flying drunk.”  

You got to love it!

For the First Day of Christmas, I do know thatPatti is getting the return of two bedside fall mats and that beginning lastnight her high-low mechanical style bed will be lowered to as close to the flooras possible when sleeping, about a foot (30.48 cm) off the floor.

Caregivingly Yours, Patrick Leer 

videos: www.youtube.com/daddyleer

no one can serve two masters / MS meds

from today’s Washington Post:

Was my doctor loyal to me, or to the drug companies?

“…I knew that I had felt pressured by him to take medications. WhenI found that he had been paid six times my yearly salary to work for themanufacturers of those same drugs, my loss of faith was complete … having MS isdifficult enough. The last thing I needed was to worry about whether myneurologist was acting in my best interest…”

Caregivingly Yours, Patrick Leer 

videos: www.youtube.com/daddyleer

disability perspective / MS

Q ...What is a disability perspective?

A ... disability perspective is a viewpoint that considers the needsand aspirations of disabled people and their families.

I offer as an example a tale of two stories...

“Christmas By The Lake” Boiling Springs, PA

When surreal becomes real, you’re just glad you were part ofit.  “Christmas by the Lake” hosted bythe Boiling Springs High School Alumni Association could not have been a moreenjoyable winter outing.

Upon arriving we found wheelchair van accessible parking availablein front of Appalachian Trail Conservancy.

Lowering our van ramp we found ourselves also in the staging areaof the Pioneer Girls (a variation of Girl Scout Daisies) and parents. Our‘transformer’ van quickly became show and tell to young inquiry minds who inturn shared with us all their exciting adventures lighting the luminaires. Welaughed and smiled as the curious ‘heart of childhood’ embraced differences sohonestly and innocently.

Our push and roll around the lake was mesmerizing with hundreds ofreal luminaries plus a fully lit Christmas Tree floating in the lake. Patti inher wool cape, mittens, hat and buggy bag wheelchair lap blanket declared shewas “quite toasty” in spite of a ‘real feel of 29˚F (-1.6˚C)’.

When we needed to abandon the path and use the side of the streetfor a block, the reflective strip on Patti wheelchair lap blanket shone like abeacon in the lights of approaching cars.

Christmas music filled the air, Santa roamed about ho ho hoing and chestnutsand marshmallows were available for roasting over a fire pit.  Everything was free including hot chocolate,hot dogs, and Christmas cookies. MS symptoms of dysphagia restricted us to hotchocolate and cookies but that was ‘no problemo’, they were delicious.

Horse drawn carriage rides were also available but we did notexplore as rarely are they easily accessible and Patti could care less - shealready has me, her trusty one-man open sleigh horse.
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Now the same event as reported by mainstream media … Lights line the lake in annual Boiling Springs event
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12% of Americans are affected by disability, add in theircaregivers and families and you are talking about a quarter to a third of anycommunity’s population.

Including disability perspective into news or promotions is notabout political correctness, it is inclusive and welcoming to people of allabilities.

Caregivingly Yours, Patrick Leer 

videos: www.youtube.com/daddyleer

dreaming of a purple Christ…MS

Decades ago, maybe even the last time Patti‘walked’ into a church, we had a Christmas tree lit with all purple lights. Ouryoung daughter, along with all the children, was invited up to the altar totalk about Bhristmas. Long story made short the kids were asked about Christmaslights. When Megan offered purple, the minister corrected her pointing out thereis no such thing as purple Christmas tree lights.

A harbinger of what she would face in schoolwhen teachers would mis-teach Multiple Sclerosis either working from out ofdate textbooks or sharing mild MS as an example.

It would not be until her senior year of highschool that Megan actually had a teacher who personally knew what growing up livingwith severe MS was about. She, like Megan, had spent her youth with a Mom in awheelchair dependent on others.

Lack of awareness by others is part of livingwith MS as a family, affecting not only the mysterious diagnosis but equallysignificantly the daily life of all family members.

Holidays are a good time for common denominatorexamples. ‘Normals’ put a tree in a stand and admire, while living with MS you discoveryou need to secure the Christmas tree as stable as a grab bar. Patti has pulledmore than one tree down on herself while trying to be involved. For years I securedour conventional tree stand to a square of 3/4” (19 mm) thick plywood. Severalyears ago I simplified and bought a 30 lb (13.6 kg) steel stand with a leg spanof almost 3’ (.9 m) made by Bowling Enterprises of Bear Lake, MI.

Being no longer able to stand, legally blind, failingeye hand coordination, and down to use of only her right arm - were you tooverhear our ‘assisted’ decorating you might be surprised at the laughter ofinvolvement.   

Purple is not only Patti’s favorite color but acombination of contradictions, hot red and cool blue. Perhaps not traditionalChristmas but then again living with MS as a family we jumped that traditionaltrack long ago.

Caregivingly Yours, Patrick Leer 

videos: www.youtube.com/daddyleer

Girls Body Art And Hot Tattoos Idea

Girls Body Art And Hot Tattoos Idea

Girls prefer body art sexy tattoos that are more feminine, these girls tattoo designs delicate and pretty looking. About Body art girls tattoo design is not to say that women do not prefer something different. You will find a lot of women sporting more aggressive body art  tattoos designs on their bodies. There are a lot of women who think that large tattoos designs for girls are a real cool idea. Girls Tattoos not only look beautiful, every body art girls tattoo has a story to tell.

Girls Hot Tattoos Idea

Girls Tattoos or Body Art Girls Tattoo Designs symbolizes something that this tattoo design is closer to your heart and Girls Tattoos Body Art Girls Tattoo Designs which has a deeper meaning to it than what you see on the outside.Girls mostly prefer Flower tattoos designs,Girls butterfly tattoo designs ,Girls star tattoo designs ,girls body art tattoo designs wear on the parts like Arm, Shoulder, back and lower back to Girls Tattoos Body Art, Girls Tattoo Designs and preferred tattoo designs .

winter wheelchair tips for caregivers 2011

In a wheelchair Patti does not generate thesame body heat as a walking person. Cognitive impairment only adds to risk whenoutdoors in any weather.

Speculating on how fast it takes forhypothermia to set in is a fools’ question. … Prepare!

While winter embraces all, it does demandcaregiver / carer respect. Our story is about Multiple Sclerosis however winterweather does not discriminate over diagnosis.

Lower body for a non-ambulatory person is mostvulnerable. Last winter was a benchmark when we received a gift of a buggy bag® wheelchair lap blanket. All the time and stuff involved such as layers ofsocks, leg warmers, boots, and blankets disappeared. It’s almost like the BC /AD line in our history of winter living with MS. Not only did it quickly becomea winter mainstay but its all-weather features have made it all year rain gear.

It’s easy to say “wear several layers ofloose-fitting clothing”. However when someone is unable to dress themselvesthis can get beyond interesting. A sense of humor is most helpful. 

For outerwear we depend upon a hooded woolzippered cape. Capes are easier for getting on and off when assisting someonein a wheelchair and a zippered cape simply increases options. Hoods are easy toflip up or down, cover everything except the face and are always attached.While wool is ‘old school’ it still has the unique ability to provide warmtheven when it is wet.

While a hat and scarf are often recommended Ihave concerns about mixing scarves and wheelchairs, though I have learned ofthe ‘infinity scarf’ for those wanting style without the ends that could catchin wheels. Hats work OK but are easily misplaced and can create some serious ‘electrichair’ styles.

Mittens ‘rock’! Rather than struggle to fit herfingers into gloves Patti just slides her hands into warmth.

Most importantly remember your carer /caregiver self especially your foot wear on snow or ice-covered sidewalks, ramps,driveways, etc. Fashion is arbitrary, falling is unacceptable.

Being prepared separates ‘disability forced hibernation’from enjoying winter to its fullest!

Caregivingly Yours, Patrick Leer 

videos: www.youtube.com/daddyleer

Alien Tattoos Designs For Girls

Alien Tattoos Designs For Girls

When Alvaro de Mendana de Neyra, the first European who landed on the shore of Maequesas in the eastern islands of Polynesia in 1595, he already saw the Alien tattooing patterns of Alien  tattoos designs which looks similar to a checker board that covers the whole body of a native Marquesan. These are one of the unique tattoo designs for girls ever in the range.

He was surprised to see that the natives were covered with Alien tattoos pictures for girls in almost entire part of their bodies. Girls Tattooing was called tatauing then, and alien tattoo flash was termed tatau in marquesan language. That’s a good concept of Alien tattoos for girls and Alien tattoos for men.

The Alien tattoo for girls gallery played a major role in the culture of Marquesas, and their girls alien tattoos art were typically associated with aesthetic, political, social and economic aspects of their life.

Baby Tattoos Designs

This can deeply hurt you if you're planning to imprint your baby's tattoo on your body. This idea seems to me a bit awkward as the baby looks completely different in almost all the pics below.

Check out 10 more worst baby tattoo pics after the jump.

 

 

The Dark Side of Oz

Two top-notch classics from different generations melding together. This is beyond amazing. It's an unexpected gift from the Universe. Well worth your time.

12/5/11

Time for a little update as our job saga continues...

A few entries back, I wrote about a temporary break in the job crisis.  Aaron had found a short term consulting gig at a decent rate of pay which would tide us over through the end of the year.  It was a DISASTER!  The company owner (L) was an absolute lunatic...a madman.  Aaron was not there a week when the marketing director came to him and told him that he was leaving on Friday with no notice.  He could no longer take the bosses tirades.  Here are the bullet points of the nightmare...

- Small company is owned and run by L

- L's live in girlfriend is second in command.  She has no particular background that makes her a great person for this position.

-L and girlfriend have frequent screaming fights in the office

-L's parents spent lots of time in L's office, just hanging out.  L is a man in his 50's.  L fights with his parents the way he fights with the girlfriend.

-L "knows it all".  A meeting with L to share input, observations or advice turned into a session where L told you all the reasons you didn't know what you were talking about.

-L changed your job description on a daily basis so you could not focus on making progress

-L was frequently out of the office.  L had a stroke 2 weeks before he contracted Aaron.  This was one reason that Aaron was brought in.  L is so crazy he's killing himself.

-L had a history of getting frustrated that people were not doing what he expected (even though he could not define what was expected...it changed day to day) and firing them.

Needless to say, Aaron was miserable.  He was trying to give L what he wanted and L would rip him a new one.  One day he came home and told me that he and L had had a red faced screaming fight.  Several times Aaron came home at the end of the day desperate to terminate the contract.  He hoped to be fired.  He'd tell me "it wasn't working out for either of them".  My response was....this wasn't about "working out" as far as we were concerned.  This was not a career move.  This was a paycheck....period.

He stuck it out....until L decided Aaron wasn't working out.  L called him in to terminate the contract and Aaron graciously acknowledged and agreed it was the right move.  Apparently L was STUNNED that Aaron took it all so well.  All in all, the job lasted about 8 weeks out of the expected 16.

So, we are back to being jobless.  He has one opportunity which is a good one.  He's a very strong candidate but not "the perfect guy".  They have been looking for Perfect Guy since January.  It's an executive position that they've had filled with an interim person and they're in trouble with that because he doesn't have the management skills to run the department.  Aaron has those management skills but he's not an expert in the technology.  They seem to be focused on getting someone with the very specific technical background and strong management experience, and they can't find that person.  It's time for them to hire my husband!  :)  I am sending my daily messages to the job gods.

The job is in California but we are not even talking about the logistical problems involved (House we can't sell, child with a year and a half of high school to go).  We're just hanging onto every hope that he gets this job, then we'll worry about all the details.  It will probably mean a long term bicoastal situation.  Doesn't matter, he needs a job.

By the way, Aaron had a communication recently from someone who is still at L's company.  He was making sales contacts and forwarded to Aaron an email conversation between himself and a potential client.  Upon making the pitch, the clients asked if L was still the CEO.  His response to learning that L was still there was "I will not do business with that schizophrenic asshole!"  Kind of sums it all up right there....

I also mentioned a photography job that I was pursuing.  This has turned into a big run around as it is a county civil service position.  About 1000 people have to handle my paperwork and things continue to go missing along the way.  I have spoken on the phone a number of times to the woman who would ultimately be my superior and she seems very interested in hiring me.  There's just always another hoop to jump through or something that they can't find or don't have.  My 30 year old college transcripts?  For a part time photographers positions?  When I supplied a copy of my diploma?  REALLY?  OK.......

I'm still hopeful that this will work out but it may be months.

ABC NEWS - DAY 3: Mind-Altering Psych Drugs for a 7-Year-Old

Popularity of the Cross Tattoos

The Popularity of the Cross Tattoosis on the rise as shown by the number of top celebrities getting them. Cross Tattoos On Wrist There are many types of wrist tattoos including stars, words, and wrist bands. The wrist is a great location for a tattoo that you can hide or show off as you choose.What an ideal spot for your favorite saying or symbol.
The most common location is the inside of the wrist Cross Tattoos On Wrist.They are very popular because it is easier to hide an inner wrist tattoo. Some folks like to have their wrist tattoo on top of their wrist in combination with a tattoo sleeve or hand tattoos. Even more daring is a tattoo that encircles the wrist like a bracelet.
A tattoo of this type is just like an armband tattoo but much lower. Pink has “What Goes Around Comes Around” and “TRU LUV” circling her right wrist. Popularity of the Cross Tattoos

Popularity of the Cross Tattoos

Modern Japanese Tattoo Pictures

Modern Japanese Tattoo Pictures
Japanese dragons mean different things to different people, and tattoo culture in the modern United States seems to be morphing away from what dragons represented in traditional Japanese texts, like the Kojiki and Nihongi that were written all the way back in 7th and 8th century Japan and earlier.
You can tell whether a dragon is Japanese, Chinese or Korean by how many toes it has on its feet. Chinese dragons have five toes, whereas Korean ones have four toes and Japanese dragons have only three toes. In Chinese mythology dragons represent wisdom and power. There are nine kinds of Chinese dragons, and each has a domain or a characteristic assigned to it — there are celestial, spiritual, earth, underworld, horned, winged, coiling and yellow dragons, and the king.

Thanksgiving 2011

Popular Stylish Flower Tattoos For Girls

 
Tattoo designs become a fashion icon for new generation. every one want to have a new stylish tattoo design to be prominent in their friends and fields.Tats fashion is not limited now to only men it become unlimited for every one specially for girls and women. The mostpopular tattoos for girls are butterfly tattoos, Flower tattoos, small tattoos and star tattoos. I think the most likely tattoos from girls are Flower tattoo designs. The mostly Floral tattoos are on Flower tattoos on shoulder, Flower tattoos on hip, Flower tattoos on arm. I

There are many types of Floral designs as Rose tattoos, Hibiscus tattoos, Lily tattoos, Tulip tattoos and many more. They are also in colors designs and in black.

Flower tattoo designs pictures

Flower tattoo designs pictures

Flower tattoo designs are maybe the most popular girls’ tattoo designs. They are popular among girls and women of all ages. These tattoos symbolize feminine beauty and elegance and always look attractive. Of course flowers can be met in men’s tattoos too, but there they are mainly decorative elements of big complicated tattoo designs. For women flower tattoos became a kind of jewelry that is always on them and can be worn everywhere. Flower tattoo designs really decorate women’s bodies, but it is not the only their function. Thesetattoos always have deep meanings, as well as flowers are important symbols in all cultures. That’s why choosing a flower tattoo you should know what this flower symbolizes.
Rose tattoos are probably the most popular flower tattoo designsbecause roses are thought to be kings’ flowers. This flower always symbolized love, passion and beauty. But at the same time roses have sharp thorns, so they are beautiful but far from being helpless. That’s whyrose tattoos also have ambiguous meaning.

Flower Tattoo Designs Art

For understandable reasons, people choosing flower tattoo designs are expecting to express a certain amount of individuality. Because of this, there may be a hesitancy to settle on a flower that seems to have attained some kind of “cookie-cutter” mass appeal.
Flower Tattoo Designs Art 

Female tattoos, ladies tattoos or girly tattoos – in other words tattoos that are feminine in design, and therefore favored by women or girls – are becoming more and more common.

Girls Full Back Hot Tattoos

I think that the king of tattoos is the full back tattoo. There, I said it, fullback tattoos are probably one of the most definite and complete way exhibit your body art. But after you have a few smaller tattoos done on the other parts of your body first.

Some folks go the full Monty so to speak and actually go with the full back tattoo for their very first tattoo. It is a very bold choice but not for everyone! However, I must caution, a tattoo that covers the entire back from neck and shoulders all the way down to thewaist can be very attractive. But you should do your homework!And by homework, I mean you need to choose wisely the pattern and design of yourtattoo as well as choosing the artist to draw the tattoo on your back.

Cut corners and you are going to be very sorry for the rest of your life because afull back tattoo isn’t going to be easy or cheap to take off if you regret it.So obviously, for a Girls Full Back Hot  Tattoos that isn’t going to be as easy to hide or ignore as a smaller tattoo can be, it is very important that you are aware of these steps before getting one. And that is, make the time to carefully plan it out. Don’t feel rushed because it may curtail your creativity. And definitely talk it over, several times if needed with your tattoo artist to make sure everything is within your specifications and the quality of the work isn’t going to be substandard.Case in point, recently a Belgian teenager girl fell asleep after asking for 3 star tattoos to be done on her face. She ended up with 56tattoos! She blamed a language mix up and she now reportedly faces a huge bill to remove those tattoos. Now I don’t know if this whole story is true because quite frankly, it does stretch incredulity. How can someone fall asleep when having tattoos put on her face? But hey, it is a story and it has a lesson attached to it. Be careful because you may end up with something you don’t want!So back to the full back tattoo. It is a large job and may take several hours depending on the coloring involved and the patterns. Usually the tattoo artist wants to trace out an outlined of the tattoo and perhaps start off with some shading and colors. And then ask you to come back after number of days to let your skin heal a bit. And then continue to work on your tattoo. Just filling in and shading some more until the complete tattoo canvas is revealed.So let’s sum everything up for anyone that is interested in getting their whole back tattooed.

Popular Devil Tattoos Idea For Men And Women

Devil tattoo is a type of tattoo design which think to be an evil tattoo design. Devil tattoo meanings signifies to the evil and wickedness but very few people use devil tattoo art for evil meanings yet more use it to show their ties with the pagan worship of both modern and ancient time.

Devil tattoos style art is used to show modernism as the Devil is a symbol of chaos and an uncontrolled spirit. New Devil tattoo designs could be mix with Angel tattoos or could be use with other worship tattoo designs.

Devil tattoo designs for girls and Devil tattoo designs for Men both are popular in this modern age. other forms of devil tats are devil tattoos on arm, devil tattoos on back, devil tattoos on front and devil tattoos on shoulder are more famous. Here we have some latest designs of devil tattoos pictures, we hope you will like them and give us your feed back.

Breast Tattoos Pictures Idea

Currently, many tattoos designs artists patudara really take art classes, and very good at what they do. Not all women like tattoos on breast for women, tattoos art artists will have the mandate that I have, but it should not stop you from seeing other people. There are many self-taught, talented tattoo artist – you just need to shop for them. Oh, a quick word to the wise: Tattoos on breast artists generally will NOT work in person if he was drunk. (Although a lot of tattoos seems strange stories began with, “Well, I got drunk one night, and I’m …”) Some inexperienced people may believe that dulls the senses with alcohol will help the procedure less painful tattoo on breast girls. However, alcohol thin the blood, making you bleed more while the artist worked. Yes, he is poking you with needles, so, yes – you will bleed!

Breast Tattoos Pictures Idea

Some bleeding is normal, however, is bleeding a lot (like when drunk) has the potential to hide the flower tattoo on breast as it is being done. Therefore, you may end up with a tattoo that does not meet the standards of good quality, just because the bleeding may be distorted view paudara tattoo it! (Yes, it would be a mistake YOU -! No tattoos that) as far as tattoos on breast adventurers go, I happened to find one Girls tattoos on breast at a motorcycle rally in Kankakee, IL. One of the many bare-chested. I happened to see her chest, and found the breast tattoo is incredible. In the upper left chest area, there is a tattoo woman who is very exciting “ride” on the back of a snake.

One of her breasts tattooed around her nipple, making it look like both he and the girl with a particular body part. He has accented that, by piercing his “share” nipples! That’s funny, inventive, and make you smile. At least, that is one of the most impressive tattoo breast and draw what I see in my life! Just like you want to find a doctor who in accordance with your disease, your chiropractor to treat illness and pain, or even a dentist to treat these cavities – so you should find a suitable experienced breast tattoo! Some actually have more experience with one tattoos on breast or any other tattoo styles, so finding one that will do the best job, will make you feel better about your breast tattoo in the end!

design Devil and Angel tattoos

design Devil and Angel tattoos

Devil tattoo is a type of tattoo design which think to be an evil tattoo design. Yet Devil and Angel tattoo meanings signifies to the good deeds with the help of an Angel a devil could be defeated but very few people use devil angel tattoo for evil meanings as more use it to show their ties with the pagan worship of both modern and ancient time.

Devil Angel tattoos style is used to show modernism as the Devil is a symbol of chaos and an uncontrolled spirit and Angel is a messenger of God. New Devil Angel tattoo designs could be use with other worship tattoo designs. These interesting devil angel tattoos are very pretty designs.

Devil and Angel tattoo designs for girls and  design Devil and Angel tattoos for Men both are popular in this modern age, other forms of devil and angel tats are devil and angel tattoos on arm, devil and angel tattoos on back, devil and angel tattoos on front and devil and angel tattoos on shoulder are more famous. Here we have some latest designs of devil and angel tattoos pictures, we hope you will like them and give us your feed back.

Jessica Alba wrist tattoo

Jessica Alba wrist tattoo

Celebrities tattoos fashion is a fashion icon for all girls in UK and USA who follows them and like to have tattoo designs similar to celebrity tattoos designs. Here we have Jessica Alba wrist tattoo lets check out with us!

Jessica Alba wrist tattoo

Sanskrit Language is the origin of many words in most of the languages and thats why I think Jessica Alba chose the Sanskrit word “Padma” which means
lotus flower for her wrist.

Jessica Alba wrist tattoo

Here we have some pics of Jessica Alba tattoo on wrist for the UK and USA girls who are fans of Jessica Alba or like to have tattoo design for wrist tattoo. We hope you will like Jessica Alba pictures and tattoo design of Jessica Alba, give us your feed back for this favor.